Tips For Grooms - Keeping Your Bride Happy At The Wedding Ceremony

For your bride, her wedding day will be one of the most wonderful and romantic days of her life. She has probably been dreaming of this day for a long time and it is your job to help her realise this dream.

Many men think all they have to do on their wedding day is turn up on time and make sure they have the wedding ring. However, if you really want to ensure your bride has a fantastic wedding day, then you really need to empathise with her feelings and work a little harder. In other words - be a super groom.

Be A Gentleman
Being a gentleman is the key to success for any groom at their wedding. You may not be handsome, you may not be rich, but you can be a gentleman. Whatever happens on the day, whatever people say to you, you must be charming, diplomatic, and keep your cool.

Be Romantic
Never miss an opportunity during the day to be romantic to your bride. Although the time for intimate moments will be scarce, there will always be time for a quick kiss, a few tender words, smiles, and hugs. Even if she knows you are not normally the most romantic guy in the world, she will love you even more for making the extra effort.

Smile
Another important thing for a man to remember to do on his wedding day is to smile. Many men do not smile very much, because it is not in their nature. They can be happy as larry on the inside but they do not show it on the outside.

However, on this special day you must really try to smile. You may be happy on the inside but you must make the extra effort to show your bride and everyone else at the wedding that you are the happiest man in the world.

When The Bride's Mother Enters
In many cases, the bride's mother arrives unaccompanied at the wedding ceremony. Take the opportunity to greet her and compliment her on her appearance. Tell her how much you are looking forward to the day. Either escort her to her seat personally or (if time is tight) have one of the ushers do it.

When The Bride Enters
The first important smile of the day is when your bride is coming down the aisle. Take a moment to turn around slightly and give her a warm smile. This small, but important gesture will remind your bride that you love her and that you are there for her. It will tell her that she is not alone and you doing this together.

At The Altar
Also, when your bride arrives at the altar, do not ignore her and stare ahead as though you are on a parade ground. This is your wedding day and this is the woman you love. So smile! Whisper or say your love her or she is looking beautiful.

Be Confident
Smile and try to be confident and relaxed during the wedding ceremony. If you look happy and relaxed, then your bride will also be more relaxed and enjoy the occasion more. You only do this once, so try to enjoy it as much as you can.

Ways To Overcome Nerves
If you are really nervous then try a little acting to help yourself. Just try to imagine how your favourite hero would handle the situation and put yourself in their place. Imagine yourself as James Bond on a mission. Imagine yourself as self-assured, relaxed, and oozing charm. Nothing can phase you! You are relaxed and you are in control.

After The Ceremony Is Finished
After, the ceremony when you kiss your bride, whisper in her ear that she looks great and how proud you are to be her husband. After all, she must think you are Mr. Wonderful, otherwise she would not have married you. So, try to act like Mr. Wonderful. So, smile and compliment her. You are only saying what is in your heart, anyway. So, Mr. Taciturn let some feelings out!

Have A lovely wedding!

Michael Breck is a professional Magician and runs an Entertainment Agent in Scotland called The Magic Agency. He has been entertaining at weddings and booking entertainment for weddings for over twenty years. For more ideas about wedding entertainment go to Entertainment For Weddings and Events or Magical Entertainment For Weddings and Events.