Secret To Get Your Ex Call You Back Voluntarily

Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Isn't that fantastic?

I wanted to share this piece of information with you because this is definitely one of the biggest questions for people who are trying to win their ex back.

Therefore, I shall answer this question, "What should I do to get my ex call me back and also to reply my text messages and IM?"

BUT...

1st Warning!

It is important to have a complete strategy.

If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

What NOT to Say!

Before we discuss what you need to say, let us look at the type of message that will usually not work most of the time.

and even worse...

Place you in a terrible 'psychological' position.

You will realize that these usually fall into 2 main categories.

Plead - The message usually goes like this

"Jonathan, please, please call me. This is the 5th time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

EMERGENCY

"Jane, I need to talk to you urgently. Call me back as soon as you see this."

I believe you can see what is wrong with those 2 approaches right?

So, I won't go on and on...

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage

Perhaps, 2 of the most powerful forces in a human being's mind are

*Curiosity

and

*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

Once you combine those 2 powerful ingredients, you will have a super effective recipe that will perform 'magic'.

Therefore...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

Using a very friendly tone of voice:

"Hi Jonathan. It's Jane. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

Jonathan will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" Jonathan will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

This is important...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It doesn't need to be a big thing. Just a small thing will do as long as it is plausible.

What is more important is that...

Your 2nd Warning!

It is extremely important to have an underlying strategy before you call.

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Is that okay?

What I am saying is...

What is more important is what you do before, during and after you get your ex return call. This is even more important than getting your ex to call you back.

Make sense right?

Have a PLAN!
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