SAVE A MARRIAGE

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WHEN PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE, THEY MARRY
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Basic questions are important to be answered at the start of a marriage like inquiring about your spouse's goals in life, ambitions, aspirations, number of children expected, and ways of how to keep the passion and how to keep the physical affection within the marriage. Marriages can be trying, for instance what if one day your spouse announces out the blue that he or she is leaving you because they don't love you anymore, this type of news can be very trying and is the greatest bomb shell you could ever receive in your marriage so be prepared for what lies ahead.


ARE THERE SYMPTOMS AND SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTERS?
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It's up to you whether to make the first move of putting your marriage back together. If your spouse forgot how important cuddling is or forgot how red roses or a box of chocolates on holiday, this could be a sign that your marriage is going down hill. If your spouse no longer reacts to those critical spats that once held a significant value to them or is no longer the initiator of spats and arguments with you like they use to, then that is a definite sign that the marriage could be coming to an end. You have to show that you are on your spouses side and that you care when they are in a bad mood. If you feel that your marriage may be coming to and end, try talking to your spouse about the problems within the marriage without nagging or blaming because those will only make the discussion more volatile. If your spouse has turned you into a broken record and you are always arguing about the same topic, repeating the same words and phrases over and over again then this is a common problem that all married couples have when they run out of words to express themselves. Before this painful moment of truth that your spouse is leaving you, there were probably signs of your spouse's departure beforehand.



WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE, WHAT WILL YOU DO?
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If you make a hasty decision you may look back later and wish that you had acted differently. What are some possible reactions to a marital crisis?

One possible reaction to a martial crisis could be just to give up, which is a defeated reaction. Accepting that your marriage is on the brink could influence the future outcome between divorce and a happy union. For example:it is like writing an article for a magazine.



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Then there is hopelessness, the person feels lost and does not know what to do. Time heals is true in most circumstances but not for a marital crisis. Myth 3. Myth 4.


HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Analyze the present consequences of the relationship if you decide to forgive him. It is better to have a third party as your spiritual adviser such an reliable friend who can act as a referee. Talk to your friends, support group and others acquaintances that might be knowledgeable about the affair.



WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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When the spouse leaves his home, it does not mean that marriage is over, it simply means that you have to work harder at it to get back happiness, Do not try to convince your partner that his decision to end the marriage won't work. Spend weekends together to bond and do activities that you both enjoy. Treat your spouse with kindness and courtesy. Resentment for past hurts will eat away the love of your partner. The first action to save a marriage would be for the couple to recognize that there is an actual problem and to do whatever is needed to defeat the problem. If the problem is dealt with in a positive manner, there will be much chance of staying away from divorce, If you want to save your marriage, talk to your other half. Accept her weaknesses and failures after all nobody is perfect.


HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
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Make your spouse your number 1 priority over your kids and work. When marriage is at the brink of disaster it is not the right time learn more communications skills, you new knowledge will only offer you the ability to use better words to fight more often. You will be conditioning his mind on his next move. Leave the kids to your mother. You will find only one path from divorce to a happy union. But remember that in the future, it will only be the two of you. Plan activities that are only for the two of you.


IS THIS MARRIAGE BEING SAVED?
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Having excellent marriage quality depends on being able to disagree without inflicting permanent damage upon the relationship. Do you want to be part of the statistics? It is never too late to change and decide to turn over a new leaf. You transform into a much better new you.





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