Over That Broom, Part One: Wedding Favors for the Modern Black Wedding

A wedding is described as the act of uniting a couple in marriage or wedlock in a formal church ceremony. The reception is what defines a modern wedding; the ceremony isn't complete without the reception. Friends and family of the bride and groom gather to give a welcome greeting to the newly married couple.

During the reception, the bride usually gives wedding favors to all her guests.A wedding favor is something tangible that the bride gives as a sign of appreciation for being part of their celebration. The favor is usually not elaborate and does not have to be expensive. It is a souvenir for the guests and is usually significant to that community as well.

When making favor choices, these points are taken into account:
• Know your budget and stick to it
• The favors should be used as a way to set the wedding theme or colors
• Whenever possible, try and incorporate the favor as a card holder for the place setting
• The favor is a gift, but there is no set rule about how it should be presented, think outside the box
• As much as possible be aware of current trends and fashions but the most important thing is that you incorporate your style and preferences
• Enjoy the entire experience. Remember that this is supposed to be fun. If the idea of fun wedding favors is putting you over the edge then you are taking on more than you can handle.
• If you are stumped for ideas, there are a number of resources that can help you out. The internet and support groups are just a few.

There are different approaches that can be taken when making favor choices for the modern black wedding.

One is to give favors that demonstrate your faith. The favor can be used as a way to symbolize and share you faith with your guests by way of presentation. Since the wedding is a spiritual event, favors that reflect faith and devotion and give praise can be very important. Examples are sterling silver bookmarks.

Another approach is giving favors that appreciate your heritage. The black community is known for holding high regard for their heritage. In incorporating your heritage as part of your celebration, you connect your new marriage to a larger story of both your family and your ancestry. Examples: African color patterns and schemes or gourmet chocolates.

Favors that show your sophistication can also be given as a gift. A modern wedding requires a modern perspective. When deciding what sophisticated favor to give, your vision is central, therefore it can take any shape or form. The final decision should match both your style and the style of the wedding. The sophisticated approach is a way to have a theme that brings a special setting for you reception. Favors that serve a practical purpose remind your guests' of your sophistication every time they use them.

A significant and lasting favor reminds your guests of your union and is an on going celebration and reminder of the marriage.