How to Win Her Back - Without Lookin' Like a Fool

I want to emphasize the "without lookin' like a tool part", partly because, well, no one enjoys lookin' like a tool but also for one other reason. Society and media have conditioned our minds to think that gettin' our ex back or makin' up after a fight = buying them expensive jewellery or smotherin' 'em with chocolates and flowers. When was the last time you heard about a dude gettin' his ex back by challenging her? Easy there Michael Jackson, put the glove away... this ain't no duel.

People who study human psychology (aka virgins... just kidding all you psychologists out there, I'm sure you get your fair share) determined that chicks like a challenge. There's your solution... challenge them.

This may sound like an a-hole move but go on a date with a random chick to "x" location when you KNOW your ex is gonna' be there. During the daytime - that's important business. Then casually walk up to her, talk to her and then introduce her to your date. Initially she'll be angry... then the jealousy'll sit in. Her natural instinct will be "oh I got'sta' go get me a man" but to circumvent this problem call her at night and be like "sorry 'bout the chick, didn't know you'd be there... so how are you?".

While on the call, if you can neg the date (say something bad about her... not like a douche, just something you genuinely didn't like) that'll be even better for her. Her ego will take over and she'll take it as a confidence booster (seriously, I know logically it doesn't make sense, but since when are chicks logical?).

Once you've done that, continuously call, text and meet with her. Not stalker-ish but enough to get her attention. Then at some totally random time, stop all contact with her. And so the challenge begins.

When she starts calling you (and she will), let the calls go to voicemail, leave the texts unanswered, etc. If she sees you somewhere and asks to go to dinner or somethin', say you're goin' to get a beer with some friends.

You don't want to overdo it 'cause that'll put her off completely, but do it just enough that you can tell she REALLY wants to talk or meet with you. You'll hear the emotion in her voice. When you hit this sweet spot, you've layed the foundation with winnin' her back.

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