Any type of game must have rules and they must have rules for a very important reason. Without any rules it would be chaos! The game of love has many rules and as time goes by we choose to ignore some of the more important ones. This is not done consciously; it's more that we forget them. It is only when a breakup happens and we think about winning her back that we realize how far from the rules we have actually strayed. It doesn't really matter if she has left him or he has left her, all that matters is if you want to know how to win her back this is where the game of love really begins.
One of the biggest events in the sporting world calendar is the Olympic Games and to any serious athlete in the world it is the most important time in their life. This is their time to prove to the world that they are the best at their given sport. But to arrive at where they are in their sports careers do you think they merely "turned up and decided to have a go" or do you think they may have possibly had a plan to follow?
From a very young age they all had a burning deep inside that has pushed them on even through the most demanding of training regimes and they have appeared at the other side ready take on the world. Was it all plain sailing? Did they wake up one morning to discover that they had suddenly become the best in the world? Was that gold medal just handed to them because they were lucky that day? Or perhaps they were guided by a mentor, who through his knowledge advised them that they had to put constant long term effort in if they were to have any chance of reaching their goal.
When you first breakup with your partner it's pretty much a natural thing to dive straight in to try and put things right without any game plan whatsoever. Your internal auto pilot moves into overdrive and you begin to grasp at any chance you can find that could show you how to win love back. You use up all your energy straight away calling her and texting and not getting any further forward. In fact the result of pressuring your ex in that sort of way would make it feel like you were moving backwards and that treasured finish line would be slowly but surely disappearing into the dark and hazy distance.
Just like a long distance runner needs tactics in a marathon, so too must you have some kind of plan that shows how to win her back. This experience is all new to you and so you are going to have to learn a whole new way of handling your emotions. If your goal or your finish line is to get back with your ex you won't go too far wrong by taking a leaf out of the book of an Olympic athlete.
When in the process of winning her back you need to be prepared for some knock backs because you are going to get them. The keywords to take note of are "be prepared". If you know that certain things could and will happen when you try to get your ex back you can pick yourself, dust yourself down and get back in the race. By being mentally prepared it won't come as a complete surprise and you will be prepared for that curve ball if it tries to slap you in the face again.
When the high-jumper goes for the new world record and just clips the bar making it fall, does she give up and go home? Does the boxer who gets knocked down in the first minute of the first round think he's not got a chance and simply walk away? How about the high board diver that was totally blitzing the competition and then smashed his head on the board and should have called it a day! (I remember watching that happen live and it was absolutely incredible how he didn't manage to kill himself!) No, none of them gave up. They simply got on with it. They stuck to the game plan that they had been working on consistently over time and they all ended up on the winner's podium. By having total belief in their hearts that they would achieve what they set out to do and by letting absolutely nothing stop them, their dreams became a reality.
If you tell yourself that nothing can stop you winning him back and believe in your heart it is possible, then it is! Only you are stopping yourself from getting back together. You must gain the positive mental attitude of an athlete; set yourself informed and educated goals by following a proper game plan and work consistently over time towards crossing that finish line victorious. The only difference between you and an Olympic athlete is that your prize will be far more precious than any gold medal. It will be rekindling the flame of your relationship.
Believing it will happen is where you start. Following an informed game plan will determine how you end up. Welcome to the game.
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