HOW TO SAVE A MARRIAGE

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HOW TO SAVE A MARRIAGE
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PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE
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"They lived happily ever after", this is the common ending of fairy tales and subconsciously in the minds of all those who plunged into the tender trap of marriage. Marriages can be trying, for instance what if one day your spouse announces out the blue that he or she is leaving you because they don't love you anymore, this type of news can be very trying and is the greatest bomb shell you could ever receive in your marriage so be prepared for what lies ahead.


WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OR SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
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Some of the most evident signs that a divorce is near goes unnoticed by the spouse. If your spouse excludes you from their circle making you feel as though you are no longer are part of their world anymore it is a sign that a divorce is near. Remember your romance and why you married your spouse in the first place and be proactive in seeking new ways to seduce your spouse and turn them back into the lover they used to be. For example:tell your spouse that you need a hug six times in one day. Be proactive and creative in planning activities which you both can share so that you can rekindle the flames of romance that was previously there. Ertha Kitts' song "Little Things Mean Lots" can serve as a guide on how to make your marriage work. If the last time that you and your spouse went on a date was a year ago then that could be a sign of your marriage going down the drain.



WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
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Your negative reaction is a one way ticket toward a divorce. If you make a hasty decision you may look back later and wish that you had acted differently. Try using a different approach, the by ways are plentiful. Ask yourself, what will happen if I do nothing, if I do not change direction and if I do not change my destiny?

Before making your decision, ask yourself the following questions:What will be the true cost of a divorce? Aside from the money involved, there will be the enormous stress, many hours spent in pain and doubt, embarrassing moments with relatives and friends and a lot more. Accepting that your marriage is on the brink could influence the future outcome between divorce and a happy union.


WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?
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Myth 4. The spouse will be embarrassed to tell family and friends about the breakup. It is the end of happiness, ones' family and security of a home. You should improve your communications skills to keep your marriage.



HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Here are some helpful pieces of advice. Tell him to give you space and enough time to think things out. The two of you should have a heart to heart talk.


WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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Men should listen more to their wives speak. Accept her weaknesses and failures after all nobody is perfect. Be the first to initiate reconciliation and be sure to resolve your conflict before you both fall asleep. The high paying job, the beautiful house and vacation to Paris may never come true. Recall the memories of your courtship, relive the thrill and excitement you shared on your dates, the places you have visited and your honeymoon. Jealousy, the green-eyed monster, is like a harmful pest in marriage and a sure way of driving your spouse away. They should avoid common behavior that is likely to make a dent in their relationship, this harmful behavior must stop.


HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
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By going on a date, there is no alternative than to dress up to show your spouse how attractive you still are. You will rely on time because it is a great healer. You can't save your marriage if your spouse does not cooperate. You will be conditioning his mind on his next move. Devote time each day for your spouse and let him know that he is in your thoughts all the time. Each path must be treated differently because what is good for one may not be good for the other. Strive to eat at least one meal a day together.


CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED?
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The result of disagreements depends on how both spouses are able to handle conflicts between them. You will have to learn on your own and utilize the available resources around you.





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