HOW TO SAVE A MARRIAGE

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PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE
You do not need to go into marriage blindfolded at least you know what to expect. Marriages can be trying, for instance what if one day your spouse announces out the blue that he or she is leaving you because they don't love you anymore, this type of news can be very trying and is the greatest bomb shell you could ever receive in your marriage so be prepared for what lies ahead.


ARE THESE THE SYMPTOMS AND SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
If your spouse no longer reacts to those critical spats that once held a significant value to them or is no longer the initiator of spats and arguments with you like they use to, then that is a definite sign that the marriage could be coming to an end. If your spouse is becoming apathetic, this could be a sign of a marriage crisis. If your spouse forgot how important cuddling is or forgot how red roses or a box of chocolates on holiday, this could be a sign that your marriage is going down hill. For example:tell your spouse that you need a hug six times in one day. Think of healthy need that you want to accomplish that your spouse can easily fulfill. Ertha Kitts' song "Little Things Mean Lots" can serve as a guide on how to make your marriage work. If your spouse would much rather spend time at work, putting in overtime or playing golf with pals, this is a HUGE warning sign of an impending marriage disaster.



WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
Is your marriage worth the effort of learning new ways to reconnect with your partner? If there will be no action now, how much regret will you feel be over the loss of a spouse? How much pain are you enduring because of your spouse's departure? How committed are you in keeping your marriage? Marriage counselors are available to offer good advices but they will charge as much as 80 to 120 per session. Change the channel of your awareness by reacting to stressful situations differently. For example:it is like writing an article for a magazine. When you read it, it is not good enough, so you tear it up and write a better one. The fourth is the working choice.


WHAT ARE THE COMMON REACTIONS FELT IN A MARITAL CRISIS?
Myth 2. Things will not work out by themselves, you have to take a hand. Each path must be treated differently because want is good for one may not be good for the other.


HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?

Here are some helpful pieces of advice. Tell him to give you space and enough time to think things out. In case, you will give him another chance, let him promise that this thing will never happen again.


WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
Resentment for past hurts will eat away the love of your partner. Many people abandon their dreams when after they marry. You can save your marriage and save yourself from heartaches by making the changes that you both need. If you love each other, there is no barrier that can break the knot. Men should listen more to their wives speak. Always say, "please", "thank you" and other courteous words. Look for resources which can help you.


WHAT ARE WAYS TO PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE
Don't ever use the word divorce every time you fight. Schedule a date night. Things will not work out by themselves, you have to take a hand. Write each other love notes, reminders that you are in love, reconnect by emphasizing your spouse best qualities and remember these are the qualities which made you fall in love with him. Many couples get so comfortable with each other that they stop dressing up. You can also show him what a good cook you are and how lucky he is to have you as his partner. Take that action now.


IS IT POSSIBLE TO SAVE A MARRIAGE?
Unfortunately, there is no course in any school on how to build a successful marriage. As you change for the better, there will be a ripple effect in all areas of your life. You will be a better person, parent and spouse.


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