How to Have Power & Influence Around Power & Influence

A closer look into the dynamics of power and how you can open relations with other people of power.



If men want to have power and influence in life, it's actually simpler than they think and it's less to do with the level of his self-esteem than something that's completely overlooked.

If you want power, all you have to do is master your relationships you have with others (and other sources of power) or the world around you.

To be powerful, just never give your power away to anyone or anything else. Then, you'll automatically be as relationally powerful as the most powerful people in the world.

This is a skyrocketing way to be much more effective around women of power and beauty.

It can't be that simple. It IS that simple because it's how I live and it's how other people of power live.

Just master your relationships (with other sources of power). How? Here's the secret;

Actualize your own independence and take your power back in the first place and then just commit to interdependent win/win relationships ONLY.

This way all of your behavior, actions and words will stem from the proper place to begin with. You'll know that when there's an obvious overcharge on your dinner bill that you'll clearly step up because you're committed to equal exchange of value relationships; you won't
let them get away with taking the wrong kind of relational authority in that situation.

When you commit to interdependence, you will avoid tremendous amounts of drama and trouble. You'll prevent relationships from forming because you'll see how people were trying to manipulate you without having respect for you or exchanging value.

People will respect you more and you'll be as powerful as them. This will open the door to relationships with other people of power including beautiful women.

You're in relationships all of the time anyways, yet few people are conscious of them much less have control over the type of relationship they have.

Think of a celebrity and people approaching them to get autographs.

The true type of relationship is already formed. That celebrity is above that person; they hold the true power thus could not open up to the lower person or trust them because they have an agenda.

They're inequal.

I've talked to celebrities and beautiful women because I am equal in relational power to them and I accept my power. They can trust ME to be 'cool' because we're relationally 'equal'.

Truth is, we are all equal as human beings, each of us = 1. When you view things 'relationally', we're ALL on the same playing level at all times. From Tom Cruise to Oprah to Jenna Jameson to you.

When you view things 'socially', it's all over the place. Most men fail with women because 'hot' women are automatically above the man in a social relationship (unless he's a millionaire or movie star).

Most men are already starting out on a losing foot. They're taking the relational approach of begging for an autograph from the celebrity status female. That's why they fail; they're taking the wrong relational approach in the first place and all of their behavior stems from it.

They've already given up their power 'in relation' to her.

It doesn't matter what words he tries to use to 'justify' it or 'how' he approaches, he is still trying to 'get' something; an autograph and hopefully much more from her but she can smell it a mile away.

It's time that men stop, take a good big look at what's really going on and reframe their relational reality for power. It's time they look at the relationships they're in and whether or not they have retained their true power, respect and control with what they're in relationship with or if they have been giving it away all of this time.

Then, they just have to be grounded in that truth and living it is easy; no co-dependencies, no possibility of other people using you, coercing you, manipulating you or oppressing you. Mutual respect and value only because you accept your power.

It's up to you to respect yourself and keep your power in relation to others because they will decide who has the power for you by default. And if you take a look it's already happened more than you ever thought in the current relationships you're in right now (ie. you're invisible relationship to radio and t.v.).

Be powerful and operate out of interdependent respect for others and the doors will open to join forces with other powerful people.