How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Don't Be a Fool

By "don't be a tool" I mean don't give into the control and power she requires. It may sound like I'm generalizin' here but all chicks want control and power dude. Don't go out and buy them a ton of flowers, apologizin' for whatever ridiculous "reasons" she makes; you and I know half them are BS.

These chicks man, they like a challenge. Remember in elementary school when all the girls in the class loved doing puzzles; word searches, crosswords, etc. and the majority of the guys were like "whatever, this is lame... give me recess or give me death"? That whole mindset of "oh cool, a challenge" sticks with them... maybe not in their conscious thinking but definitely in their subconscious mind.

So what'cha' gonna' do? You're gonna' relax and play it cool. When people hear the phrase "play it cool" they often get it mixed up with "be a rude piece of trash" - don't make that mistake. The easiest way to explain it is to avoid lookin' like another desperate dude seekin' connection. You want to make it look like "alright, we broke up but check it - I'm still livin' awesome baby".

Another thing you can do is avoid initiatin' contact; this'll work especially well if you've initiated the conversations/contact in the past. The basic logic behind this is to set a sense of curiosity in her mind; comes back to that "chicks like a challenge" logic. Either her subconscious or conscious mind (maybe even both) will be thinkin': "when is he gonna' call me? He IS gonna' call me isn't he? Maybe he's out with another girl...". Snap! Now SHE'S gonna' initiated the contact to see what you're doin'... or she'll get one of her girlfriends to do it.

If she gets one of her girlfriends to contact you, or you see one of them spying on you in the bushes (these chicks are crafty, like ninjas only hotter), you'll know she's still interested. Once you've got her interested again, you're over half way home.

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