When i first broke up with my ex, i kept asking myself how to get my ex back and started reading lots of books on and guides on saving relationships. However there are many guides and advice out there to show you what to do but not share with you their experience on how they got they ex back. So i will put my guide in a different perspective from the others out there - i will share with you how i got my ex back.
By the way if you are wondering who broke up with who, it was my ex that broke up with me. I was the unwilling party and i still wanted my ex back badly. At first i started to plead and started to look all sad and pitiful in front of my ex hoping my ex will accept me back out of pity or sympathy but that only drove my ex further away from me. So i went to find out what i should do and these are the steps i took:-
1) I limited contact with my ex. I read lots of books on how to get my ex back and the one thing that was unison in all books was to stop all contact which was what i did. For a week i absolutely did not contact my ex and when my ex were to call occasionally, i told my ex that i was busy and had to go.
2) Next i started taking up dance classes and a friend of mine who knew my ex too told my ex that i was taking up dancing lessons. I told this common friend of ours that i met so many new friends that were so nice and friendly and kept asking me out for dinner and drinks. I mad it a point that my friend would tell my ex about my activities.
3) Next, i went on lots of dates and again told my friend about it. Suddenly my ex would start to call me and start asking who i was going out with. I just said dates and quickly hung up the phone.
4) After 2 weeks, my ex finally asked whether we could get back together again. Guess what i said? I said i would think about it and made myself kind of hard to get. My ex would then constantly call me and start talking to me and be nice to me. After another week passed, my ex asked again and i said yes.
Till today i am still with my ex and i hope you will use my experience in your relationship as well. I wish you the best of luck and hopefully by showing you how to get my ex back, you too can get your ex back.
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