How Do I Choose Between A Popular Guy And A Not-As-Cool Good Friend For Prom?

For some ladies, too many requests to take you to prom might be a problem. What would you do if your good friend invited you to go to prom and then another guy, a cool guy, did so, too? When you have to make a decision like this, there are many things to take into consideration. You should not just make a decision in a rash second. Before you say yes to either, and before you turn down the right guy, there are several things to think about.

Prom is supposed to be an enjoyable evening. The first thing you want to consider is how much fun you will have with one guy or the other. For example, let's say that this is the first time that you have gone out with the popular guy. You know what your friend is like and of course they are fun. But, is the other guy? He may seems so in from what others have told you, but why not hang out with him a few times before making this decision to make sure he is someone that you actually could have fun with?

Sometimes, proms are supposed to be fun. Other times, ladies are hoping for a romantic evening. Regardless of what you are hoping for this special day, you will need the right guy to share it with. If you are heading to prom with a guy that is nothing more than your friend, you might not have that romantic feel to the evening you had hoped for. On the other hand, if you do have the goal of having more fun, than going with a friend makes more sense. As you consider this, determine which guy is more likely to help you create the type of evening you are looking forward to. Sometimes, friends are not the right choice.

In either situation, you could run into problems with your friends. Perhaps one will be hurt by not going with you. Perhaps you know someone else they can go with? Under it all, though, you have to make this decision based on how you feel about your friend and the popular guy. Just because he is cool does not mean is he fun. Just because your friend is a lot of fun, you may not want to go with just a friend.

When it comes to making this decision, take your time. Most importantly, be sure that your friend and the other guy both get a fair shake. Do not disregard their feelings or avoid the underlying topic: whom do you want to go with? Once you have made your decision, talk to the other guy about why you made the decision you did. This is just as important as making the decision itself. You want to be sure they know you took the time to consider both options.

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