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WHICH ROAD DO I HAVE TO TAKE TO REAR A GOOD CHILD?
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The arrival of a baby is just the start of preparations involved in raising a child, as we all know that parenting is actually a life long commitment. Not that it's not proper to dream about your child's future, its just that things happen differently in real life.


THE PROCESS OF BEING A NEW PARENT.
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To be able to assist your child in learning how to properly cope with life and how to face its uncertainties, you should allow your parenting skills to kick in and let it guide you on the right path. Parenting can be compared to riding a roller coaster, where throughout the way you will experience sky high thrills and even sometimes heart breaking downhill's.


HERE ARE THE PROCESSES THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW TO BECOME SKILLED IN PARENTING.
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You will learn techniques for good parenting skills when you allow your child to win (sometimes) and make sure that he/she loses (as well) in the battles that the both of you will soon face. There will be times that calls for you to disapprove your child's actions and attitude, but you do not want to do it in a way that will traumatize your child. Remember that too much of criticism is not going to do any good in any parent and child relationships.



PARENTING IS A NEVER-ENDING JOB.
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Parents seeing and watching over the years when his/her child is striking out on his/her own to become independent and self-aware is incomparable. Children now, regardless of their age need help and proper guidance from you their parents. Parenting never stops, whether you realized it or not. To be a parent, this requires you to walk in a fine thin line. Children have to be taught how to take on responsibilities for all and any actions that they perform and they should be responsible for whatever consequences (from doing bad decisions) that lies ahead of them.


TEACH YOUR KIDS SELF-RELIANCE
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Upon learning to take on responsibility, your child will be self-sufficient. Moreover, by avoiding conflicts out of fear thinking that your child will not love you back because you do not give him/her everything it wants is ridiculous. As a result of your child feeling self-sufficient, they will feel confident enough to rise above any situation. Most of the time, it is out of your own desire for materialistic pressures, or to be liked and sometimes fervently wish that your child may be spared of the things that you did experience as a child and as an action you would want to do your best to give them nothing but the best of everything.



GET MORE COMPLIANCE FROM YOUR CHILD.
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I really love it every time I hear other kids say, "YES YES", then you can tickle your child or even use humor just to see if you actually can get your child to say "YES" and by doing so you will gain more cooperation from your child. To gain cooperation from their child, Always gives your child two choices - Being the parent, you are allowed to pick at least two choices that are both acceptable to the both of you when you offer it to your child. By using rewards - You can focus on your child's positive attitude instead of the negatives by trying to put a marble in a jar when ever your child starts doing something for the first time that you asked it to do which in turn provides more cooperation from your child.


COMMON CHILD AND PARENT PROBLEMS.
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Give your child some freedom, so that they can start learning on their own and how to do things alone. A lot of the lessons now a day are all computerized, most probably your child is more adept in using a computer than you are. Oh, sure parents have been through difficult years or so, and then of course they know a lot better compared to our children, what we must keep in mind is that times have changed and what was right for them in the past may not be right for their children now. Of course, parents initial reactions might be of rage about the actual cost of the designer clothes, but come to think of the time and take yourself back in time reliving your school days, how you felt when you wanted to wear the latest clothes.


MAKE MEMORIES WITH QUALITY FAMILY TIME.
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All that you should do is change the way that you think, this can be achieved with simple steps with just a bit of planning and forethought.


THE FOLLOWING TIPS ENSURE THAT YOUR FAMILY TIME WILL BE STRESS FREE AND WILL ENSURE THAT YOU WILL MAKE YOUR FAMILY MEMORIES LAST FOR A LIFETIME:
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Design your dinner table to be a little more festive, avoid the usual setting of a bouquet of flowers.
Also, there should be a timeout for issues that have been brought up earlier and the issues should be continued at a later time which is another solution for enjoying stress free memories.
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