When you tell someone you will have twins, you will likely receive an answer like this: Oh! Twins! It is a great amount of work. Good luck !
But is it so hard as it seems? This article will try to find an answer.
To have twins is difficult in the first days, but a single kids is not less difficult, especially if you are having family the first time. The most important point is to be organized, writing down who eat at what hour, the time you changed diapers to each one, and other things you consider important.
The other key point is that man's help is needed. He has no way to do other thing with twins. He must take turns with his wife to feed, change clothes and diapers, bath, and take them out in the strollers.
But with this two aspects covered, having twins should be a wonderful experience.
In addition, twins may cause less work than two kids of different ages.
Firstly, two kids of different ages equals two pregnancies and two bad sleeping periods.
In addition, they will have different interests. Twins will like similar things, and share the friends. You arrange the visits to the doctor at the same time, because they will share the same examinations.
On the other hand, the economic implications should be considered. Although it can be thought that much more money will be spent with twins, it can be false.
At first you will have to buy two beds, cribs, strollers, after that you will start saving money.. You will receive discounts at many places; birthdays are celebrated on the same day.
In conclusion, to have twins is difficult, but it is not so terrible. Well organized and with good help, having twins is an incredible experience.
Alberto Abudara has a twins website,
Great Father of Twins, where he writes about having twins from a father's point of view.