http://www.a1articles.com en-us editorial@a1articles.com Dear Dennis, Five years ago, I hired this bright, good looking employee. She delivered her results well, and soon moved to an assistant manager position through department assessments. All through, I heard of her 'negativity' and 'attitude', from femal... http://www.a1articles.com/article_685313_39.html 11th November 2008 Dear Dr. Neder: I am 22 and the guy I am writing about is 35. The age difference doesn’t bother me at all but the fact he treats me like a princess does. I have always been attracted to the bad boy type so really I am not sure why I was even attra... http://www.a1articles.com/article_679323_39.html 31st October 2008 Dear Dr. Neder: I have been on a few amazing dates with possibly the best guy I have ever met. He is kind, considerate, so funny, and adorable. I have known him for about a month before he first asked me out. We have a lot in common, and I can see myse... http://www.a1articles.com/article_673756_39.html 23rd October 2008 Dear Dr. Neder: I would really like to know, how to get my boyfriend to really figure out what he wants to do? To help him get ready to take things to the next level, or not. I am ready for marriage and ready for the whole nine yards with him, but he j... http://www.a1articles.com/article_660368_39.html 10th October 2008 Maybe you’d be surprised at the number of letter I get from women that begin, “I recently met this really cute guy…” and end with “How do I get him to ask me out?” And then again, maybe you wouldn’t; particularly if you’re a woman. I... http://www.a1articles.com/article_654568_39.html 02nd October 2008 I am in a serious relationship with this girl, and we are seriously contemplating getting engaged in the future. However, we often get stuck on one issue: her ex-boyfriends. She keeps in touch with several. She has always been very honest with me about th... http://www.a1articles.com/article_648269_39.html 25th September 2008 Hi, I first met this guy through mutual friends about 2 months ago. The second time we all hung out during 4th of July in which case, he instantly showed me interest and invited me to another party. We flirted heavily and had a good time until 4 am. When ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_635096_39.html 11th September 2008 Dr. Neder: I met a man through the oddest of ways – a mis-sent text message! It went to the wrong phone number and somehow we started to text each other, exchanged photos of ourselves and started to flirt. He is an older man with a really sexy voice ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_629731_39.html 09th September 2008 Hey Doc! I've been dating off and on since my divorce a few years ago. I generally am completely open with my dates, and willingly share information about my life history. I've just met a gal who is a Psychologist. She has challenged my practice,... http://www.a1articles.com/article_627922_39.html 08th September 2008 Dr. Dennis, So I am about to turn 33. I’m financially stable and have a great career. But when it comes to dating I don't feel like I’ve found the "1" so I am starting to think about having a baby on my own... scary. I know it's not the ideal idea.... http://www.a1articles.com/article_618516_39.html 04th September 2008 Doc: I have been seeing this woman on and off for over 1 year, we have only been seeing each other seriously since the beginning of May. We have had difficulties with trust from both ends in the past, but things have improved dramatically over the past... http://www.a1articles.com/article_607504_39.html 22nd August 2008 I’ve been seeing this girl for 3 weeks now. We recently bumped into each other at a get together and were childhood sweethearts - big crushes on each other! Just a few days ago we where at a bar and her roommate introduced her to a friend and he inst... http://www.a1articles.com/article_601766_39.html 17th August 2008 My Wife and I have been married for almost 8 years. We have 2 beautiful boys and a girl (7, 4 and 5 y/o.) Lately it has been totally impossible to get her to have "alone time" with me. I have tried talking to her, flirting with her and just doing special ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_595074_39.html 12th August 2008 My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year. We have a good relationship and we're both sure we want to continue moving forward. We live about 700 miles apart and see each other 1-2 times a month. Here's the problem: my boyfriend has been single a... http://www.a1articles.com/article_587019_39.html 23rd July 2008 Hello Doc, For professional women (doctors, lawyers, CEOs etc) can you please tell me what is the best type of man that you've seen from your experience for these women to date or marry? For instance, when us ladies are out on the prowl for a nice g... http://www.a1articles.com/article_574766_39.html 14th July 2008 Hi Dennis, I like this guy. He’s one of those really hot guys that every girl likes and he knows it and he seems stuck up and conceited about it. He knows all the women want him and definitely knows he's hot stuff but all the times I have talked to h... http://www.a1articles.com/article_569863_39.html 05th July 2008 Hey Doc! I've noticed a trend in my dating life that is really starting to piss me off. It's rare for me to make plans with a girl and to not have her try to cancel on me or suddenly be "too busy" to keep our date. I'm so tired of games like that. Are ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_559028_39.html 20th June 2008 I’ve been friends with this girl all through high school but since December we have been best friends. The past 2 months we have brought our friendship to a new level - friends with benefits you could say. She has been going out with another guy for abo... http://www.a1articles.com/article_554351_39.html 11th June 2008 Hello. My boyfriend wants me to visit him every evening. When I'm there, his idea about spending ideal time together is watching sports on TV. I don't like sports so I get very bored. How could I make our time together more interesting for both of us? ==... http://www.a1articles.com/article_534517_39.html 11th May 2008 Last year, I met a 36 year-old man (I am 45) and when we instantly connected. We met through a dating site. He picked me up at home and the rest is history. He knew I was falling for him and began to retreat. He travels a lot with his job but I wasn't ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_529864_39.html 06th May 2008 Dear Dr Neder I have a sexual problem. I enjoy having sex, but it seems I never reach orgasm. It's really bothering me because I can reach orgasm only by stimulating the clitoris, but when I am having sex with my boyfriend it just doesn't happen. Could... http://www.a1articles.com/article_524710_39.html 28th April 2008 Hi Dennis, What is the best way to deal with rejection (in all forms and scales) when interacting with women? I think if anyone (male or female) can master this one area they would be able to attract much more meaningful relationships into their lives.... http://www.a1articles.com/article_514814_39.html 10th April 2008 Hello! Thank you so much for your time and attention. I have been living with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. He doesn’t like my father as according to him "my view of men is distorted by the secretive way he (my father) acts towards my mother".... http://www.a1articles.com/article_509861_39.html 06th April 2008 I have a problem with my boyfriend of 7 months - I want sex more than he does. We have sex about 2 or 3 times a week, but I want it more. I’m told a lot that I’m very attractive and I've never had this problem with other men. At first he was very ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_503952_39.html 02nd April 2008 Hey Doc! There’s a girl that I’ve been interested in and we do the whole flirting thing all the time and some of it gets a little physical. I finally worked up the courage to ask her out and when I did she said that she liked me when she first met ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_499339_39.html 28th March 2008 There's a girl I met the summer of ‘05 in summer school. We got along great and were fast friends, but I had a little crush on her and asked her for her number by the end of that summer. She'd written it in the back of this sketch book I carried around,... http://www.a1articles.com/article_493532_39.html 25th March 2008 I've been dating the same guy on and off for 3 years and I think it’s about time for a change considering that he never does anything to make me feel special. The problem is that I can’t seem to meet a 'nice guy' in the city I live. I have consider... http://www.a1articles.com/article_488337_39.html 10th March 2008 Hi Doc: I am 30 years old and have never been on a date. I had very bad anxiety because of my obsessive compulsive disorder. It's not as bad now, but I don't have much experience talking to people. I talk to people at work and they want to help me, but... http://www.a1articles.com/article_479159_39.html 22nd February 2008 Do women even want a nice guy anymore? I've been a nice guy all my life. Upbringing taught me to be nice to everyone. I open doors for women, compliment them, laugh with them, do nice things for them such as favors and such. What do I get in return? �... http://www.a1articles.com/article_474354_39.html 13th February 2008 Hello! I have a fairly serious issue regarding my parents and my relationship with my boyfriend. I am 22 years old and I live completely on my own, however, my parents still give me problems about my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been dating for o... http://www.a1articles.com/article_469772_39.html 06th February 2008 Hey Doc – I’m confused?! I met a nice girl, she is funny, smart and all that I'm looking for in a relationship. When I started talking to her, she told me that she was looking for new friends because the other friends she had would smother her and ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_465172_39.html 01st February 2008 Hi Doc, I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now and we're both 18. She told me last night that she had cheated on me while on holiday recently. She said a guy kissed her, while she was drunk, and she only realized after a few secon... http://www.a1articles.com/article_461037_39.html 24th January 2008 My boyfriend and I are in our late 30’s and have been dating for over 3 years. Today, in a casual conversation we were talking about our future and he made the comment, "I was talking to someone about our situation and..." The gist was that he was talki... http://www.a1articles.com/article_252962_39.html 19th January 2008 Hi Dennis,I am a college sophomore and diabetic and I'm in a relationship with a freshman. I am a virgin but my girlfriend is not. I've told her that I'm not bothered by what happened in her past.We've tried to have sex on two occa... http://www.a1articles.com/article_245170_39.html 14th November 2007 Hi Dennis,I'm a single gal who (despite being very attractive) has not been on a date with a man in a year. I have exchanged numbers with several men during that time but none seem interested (mainly they were dating another girl already so I ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_235978_39.html 02nd November 2007 Hi Dr. Neder,I'm trying to approach and meet a girl I see frequently on the way to work in the morning at the train station. What is the best approach and what do I say at first to get her trust and interest? Please let me know wha... http://www.a1articles.com/article_228064_39.html 15th October 2007 Hi, I was wondering through your research if you found a significant difference in people from different cultures when it comes to relationships? As in their values and the way they see how relationships should be. I'm particularly interested ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_224649_39.html 08th October 2007 Dear Dr. Neder:How do I approach this girl again without acting nervous?There's this really beautiful girl that I like at school (college) one day when I was in the library I noticed her looking at me so I looked at her and we star... http://www.a1articles.com/article_216964_39.html 21st September 2007 Hi Dennis! I like this girl but she says she’s not ready for a serious relationship right now and wants to be by herself for a while. I’m respecting that and just being her friend right now. I want to really enjoy my youth as much as I can and I... http://www.a1articles.com/article_208946_39.html 29th August 2007 There’s a new girl coming to our school this year. I want to make a good impression because I have a crush on her. Around school, I’m the clown, the guy who lightens things up with laughs but it usually involves embarrassing myself. I'm just too shy s... http://www.a1articles.com/article_205772_39.html 24th August 2007 Dear Dr. Neder: I came across your website as I was searching for “sabotaging relationships”. My "boyfriend" (of 3 intense months) has brought up that term for the third time. We are challenged by distance as he lives about an hour away from me. He... http://www.a1articles.com/article_202471_35.html 16th August 2007 Hi Dr. Neder, I LOVE your books! They really helped me and this letter is an example of what I’ve learned. I was walking out of this building on campus and by chance I see this girl walking next to me. Every one around was wearing kind of uniform ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_199523_39.html 09th August 2007 Good Morning --- I really enjoy reading your website! I would like to know, why do men sometimes just cut you off (no communication) when they are dealing with their problems. Long story short, I met someone last April --- things started out gre... http://www.a1articles.com/article_196392_39.html 02nd August 2007 Last week’s article focused on how women can be dumb (or at least, do dumb things) in relationships. It’s not that men are dumb, but we also do a bunch of dumb things – I see them everyday! Here are the top ten: 1) Becoming the “friend” ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_193249_39.html 26th July 2007 Yep! That’s right - women are dumb. Well ok, not all women are dumb but many of you sure do some dumb things when dating or in relationships. I get letters every day that just make me shake my head. I have to wonder whether or not these people really... http://www.a1articles.com/article_190205_39.html 24th July 2007 Doctor Neder: I am in a serious relationship of almost a year. We have one major problem that continues to come up. When we were first dating, we'd been out maybe a dozen times and slept together maybe 6 times, had no conversations about being exclusiv... http://www.a1articles.com/article_187849_35.html 23rd July 2007 Hi Dennis, I read your books, and like their practicality. I have one question of theoretical nature: why is it that woman usually do have had more previous relationships than men, although they are 'supposed' to be the more monogamous gender? Are they... http://www.a1articles.com/article_184004_39.html 05th July 2007 Dr. Neder: I read one of your articles about how to keep my boyfriend interested in me sexually. You said to try to change things up but honestly I feel like I just want to be myself because if he fell in love with who I am then why should I change jus... http://www.a1articles.com/article_180569_39.html 01st July 2007 Hello – This is questions requires some background information. My ex-boyfriend and I just broke up about a month ago after a two-year relationship because he got into medical school 7 hours from home, and I can’t move because I had accepted a r... http://www.a1articles.com/article_174154_39.html 15th June 2007 Hey Doc: About a year ago, I was unemployed, and my girlfriend's mother told her that if I didn't get a job, that she wouldn't allow her to see me anymore. She then called and told me this. Right then and there I made a terrible decision – I lied. I ... http://www.a1articles.com/article_170937_39.html 06th June 2007