Author RSSA Plethora of Problems
Doc:
I have been dating my girlfriend for the past 14 months, and we have endured many situations. The one I need help with is her past. She has told me she has been with 7 guys prior to me. She originally told me 6, but I found out and not from her it...
Am I in the Friend Zone?
Doc:
I met this girl about 2 months ago in a college class. She actually seemed to show interest in me. I dont know what her intentions were. She began by smiling at me in the library one day. Then she started to sit next to me sometimes and would mak...
Overcoming Self-Consciousness
Dear Dr. Neder,
I have a social issue. Ever since I was a kid, I wasalways very friendly, outgoing, sociable, charming, positive, and likable. Inaddition, I was never shy, but as I approached my teens, I became reclusive andreserved. It was also at that ...
Dumb Games – and the Girls That Play Them
Doc:
I have a question about girls that play "hard to get". I know you tell guys (and girls) not to play this game, but I've read other articles that say that girls should do this. What's your take on that?
Thanks!
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How Do I Start Dating?
Doc, you gotta help me!
I'm a 19 year old male, single and I haven't dated much. I've only been in one relationship and am now looking for a woman to be with and I just don't know where to look or even how to approach someone. My female cousins say to ...
She Texted Me?
Dr. Neder:
A girl in my class recently asked me out via text message. I responded back that doing that was kind of disrespectful. She responded "whatever." That is as far as it went. I'm on break now for a few weeks. Did I handle that correctly?
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Get Going, Get Confident
Hey Doc,
With Valentine's Day coming up lately I have been noticing like most single guys how much this day sucks when you are well single. However due to a severe lack of self-confidence and a habit of picking the wrong type of girl I was thinking th...
Playing Him like a Guitar
Hello Dr. Dennis:
I AM CONFUSED!
I have been trying to figure this out myself but I could not. The issue is: I have a girlfriend who claimed that she loved me. She has another guy that she says is just a friend.
Recently, she mistakenly told m...
Christmas Day Dump
Doc:
I was with my girlfriend for 9 weeks before we split on Christmas day! Everything was perfect we loved each other had talked about holiday and kids and even where we were going to get married and moving in together but the problem I had was I neve...
When She Gives Too Much
Hey Doc:
I've read your books and read your column every week. I can't tell you how you've change my life! But, I had a question for you that I haven't seen you write about before: what do you do when your girl gives too much?
She cooks for me every...
Long-Distance, Bad News
Hi there,
OK I need your opinion but in order to get that I'll tell you my story.
In December of 2007 I met a girl at a cafe, asked her out and we began dating. At that time I was not aware that she was here on a holiday visa. She spoke little Engli...
The Chase is the Game
Doc:
I'm dating this wonderful girl, but we've been going through issues in regards to the "chase" factor. We've already professed love for each other, so it's in a deeper stage than just the chasing phase, but she says of course that she wants to feel...
The Six “R’s” to Getting your Ex Back
Hello Dr. Dennis:
I know there are lots of books out on the ‘net claiming that you can get your ex back. Do any of these books really work? What if your ex has moved on and is dating someone else?
I was dumped out of the blue. I knew in my heart t...
Waiting in Line to be 100% Sure
Dear Dennis:
There's this girl that I've liked since for 2 years. I've always made small talk with her but I've been too afraid to have a serious conversation with her.
We recently did a group project together with me, her, and two other guys and sh...
A Matter of Height
Doc:
I have dated girls anywhere from 5'1 to 5'5 inches tall and even had girls 5'6 or 5'8 be attracted to me.
The thing is though, I am 5'8 1/2, which isn't really considered short, but is certainly not tall either. I have a solid, muscular build, ...