Stop with the pressure! The other day I was hanging out with this woman and we were talking about my business. She knows exactly what I do – teaching guys how to really become master communicators and learn the art of attraction – but she had n...

A lot of people think that they are takers. Many people – both men and women – start dating somebody and they realize that all that they really want from the other person is sex, and they start feeling bad. They start thinking to themselves, th...

I always get emails from people about dates, and what are the best things to do on them. People are always asking me, “is dinner and a movie okay?” Sure, dinner and a movie are great – if you want to sit there in silence and stare at a screen for...

Do you want to get lucky? Do you REALLY want to get lucky this weekend? Do you want to go out and hook up with the greatest-looking stranger? Do you want to have incredible stranger sex? And then wake up the next morning and do it all over again? And ...

Women are always talking about this one thing. If you go out with a group of women and one of them has a new boyfriend, they are always talking about this same thing. Let’s say the new boyfriend is meeting the group of friends for the first time. Eve...

I was just reading Men’s Health magazine and there is an article on Barack Obama our next President. Whether you are for him or against him – I don’t really care. I’m not here to tell you who I voted for yesterday because the last time I decid...

I have a confession as a man that I need to make to all the women: We men are clueless about anything subtle that you do. We really are. You need to be obvious to get our attention. If you’re familiar with what I teach to women, you know that I tell ...

First, you have to look at your mutual friends. Obviously, you couldn’t be looking at her profile if you don’t have a mutual friend. You’re not cruising Facebook – you’re just looking through other people’s friends. Joe Smith sends you a fr...

When I talk to any other person, I’m not trying to get anything out of it. I don’t walk up to some woman and think, man, I want to get her phone number. Or, man, I want to sleep with her. Why would I want to sleep with her? She’s a total stranger...

So ladies, let’s suppose you are out at the market when a guy you find attractive approaches you and starts a conversation, and it goes something like this: Guy: “Are you having a good day?” You: “Yes.” Guy: “What are you having for lunc...

In life, we tend to try to protect ourselves all of the time with our egos. We spend so much time worrying about everything – someone didn’t text me back quickly enough, someone didn’t email me back yet, someone hasn’t called me back! And then ...

Have you ever spent time with somebody with whom you look forward to spending every minute? You know, in life it’s so interesting how we date and date and date and date even more - all in an effort to find that someone we look forward to hanging out wit...

Every time you go into an art museum you are learning more about the artwork. The first time you go, you’re Mr. Curious, and you ask, “I’ve never seen this before, how does it make you feel?” The second time you go back, you know a little b...

I write all the time about ways to go out and meet someone. I am always talking about breaking through fears, getting over rejection and how to present yourself confidently in every situation. Why do I discuss all this, and why are these all things about ...

Women of all ages seem to have an unstoppable need to gather and heed their friends’ advice when it comes to dating – particularly when it comes to “analyzing” how well dates go (or don’t go as the case may be). Let me tell you – this practice...