Author RSSBlue Lips
We were having a funny conversation the other day and I was just wondering: do women ache like men ache?
You must be thinking right now, where is he going with this? Ache? Like in the heart? Or does he mean ache with desire?
You know that some men s...
Mental Pressure
Stop with the pressure!
The other day I was hanging out with this woman and we were talking about my business.
She knows exactly what I do - teaching guys how to really become master communicators and learn the art of attraction - but she had no id...
Are You A User or A Taker?
A lot of people think that they are takers.
Many people - both men and women - start dating somebody and they realize that all that they really want from the other person is sex, and they start feeling bad.
They start thinking to themselves, this i...
Create Better Dates
I always get emails from people about dates, and what are the best things to do on them. People are always asking me, "is dinner and a movie okay?"
Sure, dinner and a movie are great - if you want to sit there in silence and stare at a screen for two h...
Are You Lucky?
Do you want to get lucky? Do you REALLY want to get lucky this weekend? Do you want to go out and hook up with the greatest-looking stranger?
Do you want to have incredible stranger sex? And then wake up the next morning and do it all over again? And ...
How They Met
Women are always talking about this one thing. If you go out with a group of women and one of them has a new boyfriend, they are always talking about this same thing.
Let's say the new boyfriend is meeting the group of friends for the first time. Every...
How Good Is Your Word
I was just reading Men's Health magazine and there is an article on Barack Obama our next President. Whether you are for him or against him - I don't really care.
I'm not here to tell you who I voted for yesterday because the last time I decided to ta...
Women Show Your Interest: 4 Reasons Why
I have a confession as a man that I need to make to all the women: We men are clueless about anything subtle that you do. We really are. You need to be obvious to get our attention.
If you're familiar with what I teach to women, you know that I tell wo...
Stop Expecting Rewards
When I talk to any other person, I'm not trying to get anything out of it. I don't walk up to some woman and think, man, I want to get her phone number. Or, man, I want to sleep with her.
Why would I want to sleep with her? She's a total stranger! I ha...
Stop Giving One Word Answers
So ladies, let's suppose you are out at the market when a guy you find attractive approaches you and starts a conversation, and it goes something like this:
Guy: "Are you having a good day?"
You: "Yes."
Guy: "What are you having for lunch?"
You: "A...
Twenty-Eight Hours
Have you ever spent time with somebody with whom you look forward to spending every minute? You know, in life it's so interesting how we date and date and date and date even more - all in an effort to find that someone we look forward to hanging out with ...
I Want More
I write all the time about ways to go out and meet someone. I am always talking about breaking through fears, getting over rejection and how to present yourself confidently in every situation. Why do I discuss all this, and why are these all things about ...
Stop Listening To Your Friends
Women of all ages seem to have an unstoppable need to gather and heed their friends' advice when it comes to dating - particularly when it comes to "analyzing" how well dates go (or don't go as the case may be). Let me tell you - this practice is NOT help...
Neil Diamond Life Lessons
The other night I saw Neil Diamond in concert. I don't know how many of you may be Neil Diamond fans, but I grew up listening to him. Neil Diamond, to me, was and will always represent my childhood.
When I was growing up, my parents always had these S...
Life is a Continuous Conversation
Think about this Zen-like principle: if you walk over to someone and expect nothing, you'll accept everything from them.
If you expect nothing from people, then you will accept every gift that they give you - the gift of themselves, and the gift of sha...