Dating Body Language - Is It Really Important?

There is more to dating than just the choice of words you use. While what you say is important, how you say it and your general body language is much more important. This is because in a matter of seconds, your date can determine whether you are a confident person or not. The success of your date depends on your body language.

The body language is so powerful because it speaks directly to the sub-conscious mind. And it always wins over verbal communication. For example, if you say you are excited about something and yet you fold your arms, your date translates that to mean the opposite of what you said. On the contrary, even if you use the wrong words, you could still pass across the right message if your dating body language is right.

Another reason why dating body language is so important is because if properly 'spoken' you can create attraction instantly. On the other hand, if not 'spoken' right the very first time, you would not only turn off a date, but you would never be given a second chance. Sounds harsh? Harsh or not, it is the truth and what you need to do is learn the language or expect little or no success with your dates.

Below, I have outlines 5 dating body language signals that will win you dates if properly applied:

1. Good eye contact is essential. When people look away when they or others are talking, it is because of a lack of interest or a feeling of discomfort. When your date is talking and you look away, you simply say that you are feeling tensed. On the other hand, when you fail to maintain eye contact when you talk, your body language communicates insincerity. To avoid communicating these negative messages, maintain good eye contact both when you talk and when you listen.

2. Allow your body to talk whenever possible. Use gestures, smiles, physical touches and winks to communicate, slowly. Don't overdo it.

3. Do not fold your arms tightly as if you are feeling uncomfortable. That would translate to insecurity in your date's mind. Keep your hands inviting by laying them open to your date. For guys, spread your legs and occupy as much space as necessary.

4. Speak slowly and calmly. Do not rush your words. That gives the impression that you are confident and secure. When men speak slowly and confidently, they create an instant attraction to women.

5. Keep your smile alive. This does not mean that you should smile all the time. Only tensed people do so. Keeping your smile alive means that you only smile whenever it is necessary. Follow your smile with close eye contact. A lively smile crosses all cultural boundaries and it is contagious.

But what if you can't use these dating body language habits effectively? You can learn it like you learn habits. Practice. Go out more. Practice what you have learned by meeting more singles. An automatic makeover is not possible. This is because your present body language habits were acquired over a long period. That is why it would take some time to re-learn new positive habits. Practice with constancy, and you would soon learn to 'speak' a better dating body language.
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