Now that you have found someone perfect for you, it is time to start preparing for the wedding. Though the sole responsibility of organizing the wedding is not only on you but yes you do have a major role to play.
Organizing a wedding is a challenge not only in terms of physical and mental bandwidth it requires but also in terms of financial expenditure.
Especially in our
Indian Matrimonials, where money is spent out of proportion, it becomes a little difficult to manage
There are people who would really splurge a lot on weddings. In fact, some parents would save all their life's earnings for their children's weddings. The most common reason for this is that, wedding is considered a very special event and happens only once in a lifetime. However, as per financial experts, this reason is not good enough to justify overspending in wedding plans and unrealistic wedding details. Wedding day can be made special even by spending less money. Also, no one would like to start a married life in debt.
You can easily conceptualize a heavenly wedding without the fuss. During the wedding, try to spend less and save more. This is a smarter way to start a refreshing new chapter of life. Live with the one you love free from any financial worries especially in the beginning. Here's how you can do that:
First and foremost, manage your guests
Of course, it will be great if you invite all of your friends on your wedding. However, to properly manage your budget, the best thing to do is to stick with the closest pals and Inviting more people than you can actually afford means that you will be spending more than what you have planned to spend.
The best thing to do is to try sticking to people who fall within your close circle. For those who wish to be a part of the wedding but you can no longer afford to invite them, it would be better to just tell them the truth about wedding budget woes. Explain to them that your wedding plans are simple.
2. Venue of the wedding
Of course, planning a wedding in a hotel is not a bad idea but it is definitely expensive. For those who wish to celebrate their wedding in a special place, hotels don't have to be on top priority necessarily. It is advisable that you choose places that are rather smaller than hotels but are definitely nice and cozy.
Do keep in mind that there are other expenses in your
matrimonial that will follow. Of course, a bigger venue would mean bigger and better designs, more flowers to decorate the place, more chairs and tables to accommodate guests, etc.
3. Food in the wedding
Opting for buffet is the best option. In fact, it is the cheapest way to satisfy your guests' stomach. People attending a wedding are not actually looking for extravagant menu. What matters to them the most is how everything in the menu tastes.
4. Wedding attire of the bride and the groom
To save some more money or to avoid spending more, try to focus on the groom's and bride's dresses. In this case, you might have to compromise on those designer and expensive dresses. But you can always design your own stuff and make it according to your budget.
Also, it is the best that you use less beads or embroidery and details on your dress.
5. Use Trinkets
To make a simple, low-budget dress, you can use trinkets or ornaments. These things only help in enhancing a woman's overall appearance.
And yes, after the wedding, the best thing to do is to decorate your own home instead of going to a luxurious hotel or any other place for that matter. Don't forget that wedding marks the start of your life with your life partner. What is more important is how much you both stay happy with each other after the wedding and not how much is being spent o find that happiness. Luxurious trips after the wedding can be full of excitement and fun, but if you cannot afford it, it is not important to push yourself off the limits and earn a hefty amount of debt.
So now start worrying about the wedding preparations than the budget.
Sukhpreet Kaur writes on behalf of
Jeevansathi.com, which is India's fastest growing matrimonial website, provides online
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