Look at Jim Rohn's philosophy. Men were born into life to kill and protect which was and still is needed to keep their country and family safe. Women biologically reach their height of caring when they are pregnant and when they bring new life into the world.
The child is totally helpless and needs to be fed, cared for and nurtured. The male species can not miraculously breast feed the baby, therefore they do not have the depth to their nurturing.
Women do not automatically have the mind set to become a millionaire on their own.
We need to look at the programming for little girls. Were they told "don't get an education, just marry a rich man. They basically looked to dad for money when growing up. Times have changed and some women are the sole financial and nurturing support for their children, however, men still can't nurse babies. In this changing world some of the women excel at developing a successful business and earning six figure income.
It has become easier to select a business and work from a home base. Women excel in relationship building and that is why they do better with some of the MLM companies. They stay longer and again develop the people in their down line with much nurturing.
I am coaching a woman who was struggling in the corporate world, not getting equal pay or recognition. Susan decided to create an image consulting business but realized she didn't have the staying power financially after she left corporate. She carefully checked out the MLM companies and took the step to join one of them. Susan struggled finding her way as she had signed up under a man and even though he was there when she called for help, he really didn't reach out and give the assistance she needed.
In coaching her we started looking at what and how she had been programmed growing up. We began a searching process for an awareness of who and how she had been programmed. Her mother was now deceased but she had trained Susan in the ways of being a women, mother and caregiver. Her father was the financial provider for the family and she and her sister had always gone to him for their financial needs. He is a very proud man and I was pleased to provide for them. We discussed this type of programming and Susan realized she had never before acknowledge the need to get rid of the programming make her own "millionaire mind" choices. A further awakening came when she realized she was still daddy's girl. Susan had been asking and accepting money from her dad for her support since she left corporate.
Susan realized, through coaching sessions, how she needed to focus and develop her business through a relationship process. Women are the ones who are masters at relationship building and Susan needed to understand and work this system. After she qualified the leads she started to have conversations which built trust and became meaningful to the prospect. The leads that she couldn't connect with or felt they were cool, a decision was made to gift those to the gentleman in her down line who was a salesman. Now, Susan is working smarter and enjoying the process. She is nurturing the prospect and gifting her down line. Her nurturing emotions have kicked in at full speed.
We did some additional deprogramming of the mind so Susan could begin to step into her own greatness. She searched for and found the millionaire mind within and started shifting her thoughts and energies.
Her business is going strong, she made two other sales and is now stepping up to a different position. By the end of this year she will be earning $10 to $15,000 per month.
She has developed the ability to take her foot off first, yet continue her very feminine side.
Susan feels so much better about herself and has signed a note to her dad for the money he had given her. This empowered her to take her foot off first base.
You can't get to second base unless you are willing to take your foot off first.
Her sister found out she was getting money from their father and this caused a tremendous riff in the family.
In our coaching support we started to evaluate her business, how she was spending her time and where she could get quality leads. She was buying 50 leads a day which was 250 leads per week at a costly amount. She had signed up two people but would not be compensated until she signed up the third one. Her efforts were placed on qualifying the leads and selecting the ones who had the financial ability to join as it was expensive to join the company.
A coach supports a person in their abilities and encourages them along their path. We show you where the light switch is and you turn it on.
Susan has empowered herself for her destiny and now feels great about who she is!
I will continue to update this great ladies' accomplishments and we will look at the mindset of another case in becoming a millionaire for women.
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