I Love Bad Men!

Of late, so many women have started exclaiming, "I love bad men!" Most women are fully aware of the fact that bad men are usually, cocky, arrogant and commitment-phobic. They know that a man who is acting like a loose canon and blustering his masculinity at their face will tap dance away, the moment his physical as well as emotional needs are satiated, yet they readily invest their emotions and time in such men. Moreover, they do not suffer from any suicidal tendencies after a guaranteed heartbreak and misery.

As more and more women are embittered by "I love bad men" syndrome, an impinging question that arises at this point is, "What are the reasons behind this "I love bad men" syndrome?" Let's try to scoop out answers for this question.

Social psychiatrists state that women are attracted to bad men out of their deep desire to make the evil good. They feel that they have the ability to change a bad man and their success reassures them that their love is important enough for someone to change. Typically, such women suffer from low self-esteem and when a man showers attention and love on them, they feel secure. Security and a sense of gratitude compel them to say, "I love bad men!"

Bad men are known to play "mind games" and "I love bad men" is one such game. A bad man normally embarks on by convincing the woman that something is wrong with her. She soon begins to think that she is good for nothing and her man knows the best. As the bad man becomes overly possessive about his woman, rules every move she makes, she feels cared for and loved. He corrodes her self-esteem to such an extent that she becomes a shadow of her former self.

"I love bad men" syndrome usually infects a woman with dependent personality. Such women are habitual to domination and love domination. It gives them a sense of protection. These women lack the basic confidence and cannot take their own decisions. Bad men exploit this tendency and fulfill their desires.

Women simply love unpredictability and spontaneity and bad men provide them. A bad man will relentlessly pursue a woman, woo her with old world charm and shower her with love and attention, only to withdraw it suddenly. The woman constantly keeps guessing the status of their relationship. She finds this situation exciting and challenging. The "I love bad men" syndrome is in action as the woman tires hard to win back her bad man.

Bad men are rebellious and a fling with a bad man means that the woman is rebelling against her family and the entire world. Insurgence in any form enthralls a woman. She feels strong and sturdy.

Bad men are prime example of forbidden fruit and "I love bad men" syndrome ensures that, as many women as possible taste it.