Why do men and women fall (and stay) in love with each other? It is how they treat each other? Is it how they present themselves or their physical appearance? Is it the way they look into each others eyes? Well listen up guys, (and ladies) it takes a lot more than just finding cute names to call your girlfriend if you want to keep her around. Here is the truth about relationships.

Men and women become attracted to each other by a process called Courtship. This is when each of them put their entire effort into attracting the other person. The man does his absolute best to attract the object of his desire by looking his best when he is around her, acting his best, BEING HIS BEST. In turn, women do the same. The woman will make sure her makeup is perfect, her manners are at her best, and she will do her best to have interesting conversation with the man she is trying to attract. This process continues and each of them trying to attract the other person more and more by BEING THEIR BEST. This is the most important thing to remember, you must be at your best with the one you love or you will lose their love.

The biggest mistake that people make is that once they "have" that person, and are in a committed relationship, they stop trying to be at their best with their mate and begin to take them for granted. This is why people fall out of love. So you can see now why just finding cute names to call your girlfriend really is only the smallest part of the whole picture. You MUST do so much more! So what is the next step in rekindling those feeling you want back?