The best way to find these forums is through the search engines.
For example if you are selling,
1)cat food you would do a search for
Cat forums,
Google=Results 1 - 10 of about 5,270,000 for Cat forums
2)Selling motorcycle parts search-motorcycle forums
Google=Results 1 - 10 of about 924,000
3)Used Cars serach for used car forums etc use your imagination.
google=Results 1 - 10 of about 4,200,000 for used car forums
However due to the large number of forumsto post to. you will need some help.Take a look at this software that costs $47 but will be like having a full time secretary.
http://kv.iwarp.com/frum.html
I have a website that sells a mortgage system. I used the forum posting method to market it as soon as i put it up. This means making useful posts in relevant forums.
The website is
http://kv.iwarp.com/mc.html
the keywords are
Mortgage Cycling
keep in mind i have never submitted this site to any search engine
Goto
and search for
mortgage Cycling
then click on the first result that comes
yippeee it's my
post.
Good luck
kigo

