Have you loved and had the devastating experience of your beloved leaving you? Have you felt the pain? Does any other pain come nearer to it? Yes, the pain of losing someone by death may come near to that. But even that is not comparable. By death, you lose your sweetheart forever and know that she/he is no longer in this world. But if he/she leaves you for someone else, you will experience a shock that is unsurpassed. You will know that your beloved is in this world itself, but you will have no strength to find out where? You have will have no strength to meet and find out the reason for the betrayal. You will get so numbed with the shock, that you will avoid any more pain that can come your way if you meet again. So you will be left to live with that pain yourself. And that life is nothing but death at every moment.

When I cry for my beloved, the tears that I shed are more precious than heavenly pearls, says the poet in me. Yes, one cries, and one finds no one to share the tears. In this situation, if you talk to people around you about the break down you are facing, they will probably call you a fool for grieving. After sometime, you will stop talking to anyone about your pain. That will keep the pain inside you. That will kill you slowly, but surely. Please see some of these screensavers to find out if spirituality can help. God Screensaver- Friendship With God , God Screensaver One To One With God .

Can this pain be overcome? That sounds very difficult. The very fact that you fell in love and submerged yourself in that tells about your personality. Such personalities that give themselves totally away, find it very difficult to bear the loss of love. Snatch a child away from the mother and measure the pain of the mother, you will understand about what I am talking about. Why does the mother grieve so much if you take the child away? Because she carried the child in her womb for nine months, she cared for the child after birth, she kept awake for her child for endless nights and she dreamt for her child at all the times. The child was an extension of her own personality. The loss therefore becomes unbearable. In the same way, those who deeply love their beloved do it like a mother. They care for the beloved like their own extension. Their love and their beloved become an essential part of their personality. Therefore, when that love walks out, the grief is immense and the loss immeasurable.

What can be done about such grief? No one can give a prescription that will surely work. It all depends on the personality of the lover. If that person can somehow continue working towards a useful goal, while keeping the pain all the time inside the heart, life can be carried on for some time. But ultimately that pain of separation will engulf the lover in misery forever.

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