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Are You A Jealous Guy? Do You Need Help?


These strategies can help you get rid of that jealous guy and turn you back into a rational guy.

1. Talk to your girlfriend. By explaining to your girlfriend how jealous you are, she will be able to show you how unwarranted being jealous is. If it makes you feel better, get her to give you the basic details as to where she is going and how long she will be.

2. Go with her on one of her expeditions with her friends. You will feel much less jealous when you see what they all don't get up to.

3. Get her to play at being jealous. Have her treat you the way you treat her. See for yourself how annoying being jealous can be. A little example of your irrational behavior should have you feeling remorseful in no time.

4. Remember how lucky you are to have such a hot babe. She has chosen you not some other guy. She may chose to leave though, if you don't stop being so jealous.

5. If you must, test her out. This would have to be the ultimate in jealous man behavior. Have a mate try and proposition her when you are not around. By rejecting your mate you will be able to reassure yourself that being this jealous is uncalled for.

6. Seek professional help. If you are unable to get your jealous feelings under control, then you probably need some therapy. A real man seeks help when he needs it.

7. Private investigators are able to detail her activities if you really need to go that far for reassurance. If you need to go this far, you really are a jealous guy and need to think about help.

8. Self assessment. Try and figure out why you are feeling and behaving in this jealous fashion. Is one of these situations yours:
* you are pessimistic and can't believe your luck hooking up with this gorgeous creature.
* she has a healthy sex drive and is at you all the time. Deep down you are concerned that when she is not with you she is having sex with someone else.
* your ex girlfriend did the dirty and you have been jealous ever since.
* you have low self esteem and don't really believe you deserve her.
* you are paranoid and jealous from too many drugs.
* you are unfaithful and assume that she is too.
* she has plenty of both male and female friends and you are jealous of the men folk.
* she has been around the block a few times and all that ancient history makes you jealous.

Jealousy will eventually ruin your relationship and all future ones as well. You need to get this destructive emotion under control. If you cannot do this yourself, you should seek some form of professional help for being so jealous.

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