1. Keep drawing close attention on her
Hoping to draw her attention on you, in fact it is better to start from yourself. This includes paying attention to her daily clothing and makeup and take note of her small details of life. Understanding what she wants to eat and what her hobbies and interests are. So as when you have the opportunity to talk to her, you can open up the topic naturally and explore it further. Once she knew that you have paid attention to her small and little details, in return, she will also tend to pay attention to you. This could make a great impression on you too.
2. Avoid unpredictable first date
First date, after all, is important. Girls like to be frank. It is better to set a date for the dating instead of asking for her availability. This is not only to show your sincerity but also to avoid her doubtfulness about your invitation.
3. Care and heartfelt concern
It is proved that she has had a good feeling about you when she agreed to come for the first date. At this point, you may wish to carefully taking note of her dressing and give her your sincere compliment. This will make her ultimately happy. In addition, you should be well prepared just before the date to make inquiries about what dishes she likes to eat. Moreover, pre-booked 3 different restaurants on sentiment and food style (of course to be concentrated in same area) for her selection. This will make her feel that your intimacy and especially your heartfelt sincerity. Opening the car door, widening the car seat and sending her back home safely are the necessary steps to show your Gentlemanly demeanor. Remember, she will pay special attention to all these details in your performance.
4. Don’t keep telling your former days affection
It is understood that you have a lot to tell when you like a girl. But many have committed mistake by telling of his former day's affection during the very first date causing the date’s negative feeling. She turned up to your date not to listen to your ex-girl friends stories. Moreover, most girls want themselves to be unique in their boy’s heart and not to allow them to keep thinking of another woman. Jealousy tightens with love and cannot be controlled rationally. Hence, bear in mind to care for the other's feeling when talk about the past love.
5. Give small gift to make her pleased
When come to first date, give her your pre-selected fine gift. This can be a stalk of a fresh tulip, a box of beautifully packed chocolate, a simple but nice designed necklace, an interesting book, etc. Small gift with great sincerity. You mustn't act too hastily to give her your gold ornament or expensive leather bag. This would scare her when you give her these expensive gift during the very first date.
6. Avoid dry topic on conversation
You must listen attentively on her recent situation, like and dislike and views of things. Ask questions to have better understanding on her. Avoid dry topic. Let the conversation subject flow. Similarly, you should also talk about some interesting topic and not always your own expertise and ambition. Remember, do not bore her during the first date and there could no longer be another appointment any more.
7. Let the whole date ended successfully
Ask her opinions on the meal after dinner. Ask her if she was interested to go to other restaurants or continue to stay for dessert. Eating dessert after dinner is a good proposal because this will make her feel your thoughtfulness. You should fetch her home after dinner. Before parting, say something to her like this softly: “I feel real good with you for the night”, this will make her ultimately pleased. Right now, add one more: “May we continue to come out like this with me?” What do you think? Will she refuse it?
Jason Joon is a known dating expert. He owns the popular blog Romance And Relationships Home. http://www.romance-and-relationships.com