When we look at certain objects, a painting for example, we won’t be able to appreciate what’s in it, what is painted and what else goes with it if the painting is just an inch away from our face. But if we try to look at it a little further away, we’ll have a clearer vision of the whole artwork.

We reach a point in our life when we are ready for change and a whole bunch of information that will help us unlock our self-improvement super power. Until then, something can be staring us right under our nose but we don’t see it. The only time we think of unlocking our self-improvement super power is when everything got worse.

Take the frog principle for example.

Try placing Frog A in a pot of boiling water. What happens? He twerps! He jumps off! Why? Because he is not able to tolerate sudden change in his environment, the water’s temperature. Then try Frog B: place him in lukewarm water, then turn the gas stove on. Wait until the water reaches a certain boiling point. Frog B then thinks “Ooh… it’s a bit warm in here”.

People are like Frog B in general. Today, Anna thinks Carl hates her. Tomorrow, Patrick walks up to her and told her he hates her. Anna stays the same and doesn’t mind what her friends say. The next day, she learned that Kim and John also abhors her. Anna doesn’t realize at once the importance and the need for self-improvement until the entire community hates her.

We learn our lessons when we experience pain. We finally see the warning signs and signals when things get rough and tough. When do we realize that we need to change diets? When none of our jeans and shirts would fit us. When do we stop eating candies and chocolates? When all of our teeth has fallen out, or when we are diagnosed with diabetes. When do we realize that we need to stop smoking? When our lungs have gone bad and our bodies are riddled with cancers. When do we pray and ask for help? When we realize that we’re gonna die tomorrow, oh yes God comes in pretty handy then, doesn’t he.

The only time most of us ever learn about unlocking our self-improvement super power is when our whole world is crashing and falling apart around us. We think and feel this way because it is not easy to simply change. But change becomes more painful when we actually ignore it.

Change will happen, like it or hate it. At one point or another, we are all going to experience different turning points in our life, and we are all going to eventually unlock our own self-improvement super power, not because the world says so, not because our friends are nagging us to do so, but because we realized its for our own good, it’s in our own best interests.

Happy people don’t just accept change, they embrace it.

Now, you don’t have to feel a tremendous heat before realizing the need for self-improvement. Unlocking your self-improvement means unlocking yourself up in the cage of thought that “its just the way I am”. It is such a poor excuse for people who fear and resist change. Most of us program our minds like computers.

Jen repeatedly tells everyone that she doesn’t have the guts to be around groups of people. She heard her mom, her dad, her sister, her teacher tell the same things about her to other people. Over the years, that is what Jen believes. She believes it’s her story. And what happens? Every time a great crowd would troop over their house, in school, and in the community, she tends to step back, shy away and lock herself up in a room. Jen didn’t only believe in her fate, she lived it.

Jen has to realize that she is not what she is in her story. Instead of having her story posted around her face for everyone to remember, she has to have the spirit and show people “I am an important person and I should be treated accordingly!”

Self-improvement may not be everybody’s favorite word, but if we look at things in a different point of view, we might have greater chances of enjoying the whole process instead of counting the days until we are fully improved. Three sessions in a week at the gym would result in a healthier life, reading books will shape up a more profound knowledge, going out with friends and peers will help you take a step back from work and unwind. And just when you are enjoying the whole process of unlocking your self-improvement super power, you’ll realize that you’re beginning to take things light and become happy with everything around you.


Here's to your Self-Improvement success
John

John Elliott aka Oaky Wood together with Luella May co-founded http://thecorner4women.com "Motivating & Empowering, both men & Women, in the Home for Business, Health and Leisure since January 2006"
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