So many guys are clearly sending the wrong signals when it comes to going out, approaching, attracting and dating women.
They're too greedy, too interested, too unable to control themselves around beautiful women.
It's obvious they want something from women.
This male behavior frankly creeps most of the women out.
She's thinking, 'Here's another guy who is so excited to be around me just for my body because he probably fantasizes about bodies like mine but I'm not interested so I'd better find a way to reject him'.
It's like he's already co-dependent on her and would do anything she wants just to get what he wants. It reeks of desperation.
This is happening daily through 'first world' countries between men and women. The man is acting so selfish and not offering any real value to the woman.
And so, another good-looking woman has to reject yet ANOTHER guy because he's showing nonverbal signs of excitement, lack of self-control and overt sexual interest in her.
Anything he does or says doesn't matter because she knows exactly where he's coming from. If he buys her dinner or tries to bribe her with gifts, it's even MORE obvious when he's subcommunicating that she has the authority in the relationship and probably won't last longer than Jim from American Pie in the bed with her.
Not only do women know exactly where this guy is coming from, but all of the excitement for women is over before it even began.
They KNOW this guy just wants sex and is WAY to eager. There's no interest, no mystery, no value in it for her. She can't trust him to be a 'man'.
Worse than that, this guy is going to be dragging around her heels, calling her 200 times a day behaving co-dependently.
He has to be able to control himself first if she's going to get ANY kind of value out of a potential relationship.
So if you've been one of those guys who couldn't control his own body language around women (and honestly at a time I used to be around the so-called 'HOTTEST' of women), it's time to take a serious look at what's going on here and to find a Real solution on how to get this area handled or resolved so that you can stop wasting so much time and get results instead.
For an effective solution, we have to go deeper than thoughts and actions; we have to effectively influence your own subconscious mind to change your subconscious behavior.
It's easy to say 'think positive', be indifferent and just take control of yourself around women. Unfortunately for most men who have edified so much value of a woman's (social) sexuality, it's gone beyond logic.
They could want to be indifferent but it won't really help. Their own subconscious is already sending all the wrong messages to all the women they want anyways.
The neural connections are too strong as they are, built upon massive conscious thought combined with massive emotional attribution through basically putting the 'pussy on a pedestal'.
He's grounded himself completely in the wrong type of relationship to women.
It's going to take something different and beyond immediate consciousness to effect real behavioral change. It would take something powerful; something different than what's in our current behavioral reality that got men into this problem in the first place.
If men found this way that extends beyond NLP and hypnosis, they could realign their physiological behavior and change their true relationship to women. Then they'd get the opposite effects of manifesting massive attraction around women.
Any man and any women who meet, you can see what's happening if you're cognitive. His nonverbal behavior represents the TRUE relationship he already has to women, power and beauty.
Is he comfortable in his own skin in relation to her power and beauty or is he just like all the rest of the guys who have over-glorified sexploitation and attribute it to her?
Any amount of justification in NLP that a man is 'weak' while still being ignorant to our behavioral reality isn't going to be very effective.
A man must see the full truth for what it is. When he can understand female behaviorism and it's attributes at the root within the women he wants, THEN he can understand his relationship
to it and put himself in the proper relationship for massive success in dating.