Our journey on the earth plane is one where our lives will be
touched by many other souls. These souls will influence our lives on
many levels depending on the extent of the experience we have with
them, their involvement and of how it will affect and alter our
perception of certain aspects of our lives thereafter.
They might bring us a spell of happiness during their time with us,
leaving us to be content with the knowledge we gained from them with
their input to the experience and an array of happy memories, ours
to keep throughout the remainder of our lifetime.
Alternatively, our experience with them might have been a hurtful
one, leaving us only with pain and sadness, causing us to lose faith
and trust in what the future may hold, thus preventing our progress
and our soul evolution.
In earthly terms it is somewhat difficult to accept being hurt by
another human being. Particularly one of whom we loved, trusted and
thought loved us in return and might never have expected they would
cause us hurt or pain of any form.
This is normal and healthy for us in our path of evolution.
We must learn to accept and bless these experiences and realise we
are living and learning the valuable lessons necessary to promote
the evolution of our own soul.
As a human, it is difficult to accept and deal with painful
experiences, to the extent that we may become emotionally scarred in
the process.
We must realise the importance of learning to forgive and understand
that we are all one in the same, on our own divine path. We are here
to learn the lessons that our own soul chose in the first instance.
The first step toward healing the grief caused by the painful
experience is acceptance. Realise the true value of the lesson and
the knowledge you have gained from it. It is important to also
forgive and give your blessing to the other person involved in your
experience. Understand that they too are living their own soul
experiences necessary for their own personal growth.
It is unfortunate in any case that we have to suffer in the process,
however, without experiencing the true feeling of the situation, we
can never learn the lesson in effect.
All of these experiences are steps to divine wisdom, so we must open
our hearts and learn to accept the experience and to forgive the
people involved because these painful experiences are blessings in
disguise!
About the Author:
Ashleigh is a keen writer and is involved in writing for an internet
web site called `The Free Spirit Centre'. This site is focused
primarily on healing, personal growth and `human' issues.
Her contribution to the site is by means of her writing articles
based on her own life experiences and by some editing of the other
writers work. Visit her site at www.freespiritcentre.info e-mail
at ashleighstewart2003@...