Crazy, isn't it? How is this so?
Well, it's determined upfront whether you have the power and remain the stimulus in relation to her or not. This is BEFORE you even approach her (in most cases).
This relationship is often VERY subtle yet it is clear to a woman when it is either no or yes. In the in-between cases, she'll almost always (given the environment) let the guy 'have a chance' to further prove if he is the man she hopes he is.
Most guys who make it that far, screw that part up too because they're nervous around her level of beauty.
In most of the cases, guys will approach a beautiful woman and they already gave her the power. That is the true reason so many guys are failing. It's not the pick-up lines or even his interesting, unique personality..it's the relational dynamics between them.
She had the power and favor in their mind, thus that reality was represented in the smallest details of his physiology and body language which she picked up and extrapolated to determine a lot of things.
This is all the great pre-game where most of your success is already determined or not.
Everything that guys try to do to capture her interest rarely works because it's already too late. She
unconsciously and often consciously lost interest in him when the truth of his body gave her the power and put her above him.
Despite this social conditioning being programmed in so strongly, almost NOTHING he says can change her mind either. Unfortunately for many, almost all seduction teachers focus on improving the odds of an already losing game. Sure, there will be success here and there but they still 'want something' and women can tell if they're creepy or not.
You see, women are picking up the nonverbal body language signals right upfront to determine if you're giving up your power to them or not. But to the average or desperate man who is unaware of relational dynamics or female behaviorism, he doesn't have a clue.
It's ok to approach, even to compliment when you maintain the relational power and authority dynamic in your relationship with her. Most guys in the social matrix aren't close to this level though.
One of the main reasons women don't respond very well to men is because those men have already given her the power before they approached. Why should she waste ANY more time with him because it's obvious he's too interested now and she can't trust him to be stable to ever open up to him?!
Quite ironic and confuses the heck out of most men especially because they have been taught to 'pursue' and 'show interest' in the women. This social power dynamic is the exact opposite of the natural dynamic.
It IS VERY ironic, yet that's often why these women are icy. And the women won't overrule the power of social programming and in a way, they don't have to despite it's great irony because they 'are' the response. That's a heavy burden for man so it's best if he just understands what's really going on so he can alter his behavior naturally and effectively.
This 'dissing of men is also a time management tool for them to keep away the super nice guys who reek of co-dependency and look for self-validation. Those guys who are trying to 'court' her when it's not what either of them want, just DRAIN her energy like huge leeches.
Isn't it kind of hard not to acknowledge their beauty though isn't it? I mean they really ARE beautiful and desirable so it's kind of hard to 'get around' that point. Accepting they are doesn't really help either because it will make you more nervous.
There has to be a real fix so that a man can BE the powerful stimulus in the first place instead of nonverbally giving her the power (whether he wants to or not).
There is and it's called 'Alpha Relational Dynamics'. It's the only thing that worked for me. You see, once you 'always' have the 'power', you can win the power game of judgment she uses and get to what really counts - you and her.
You've got to completely step back and take a whole different approach to everything. I'm talking about becoming a powerful man at all times in relation to any level of woman because you already know your relationship to the root behavioral characteristics that she could represent.
Unfortunately for us men who grew up under this heavy social influence, I just don't see any other way than to understand the truth of it all instead of trying to align ourselve even moreso to the whims of others.
Take care of yourself and 'go alpha' so that you can ALWAYS by default win that initial power game with the most beautiful or desirable women on earth. That's when the real game begins; when they can trust you to be yourself so they can finally open up.
-Rion Williams